tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post5144070449670568030..comments2011-11-13T13:22:42.151-08:00Comments on The Incredible Shrinking Woman: Tribute to Blog LandFionahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02557101642178841960noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-90109128575835582142010-05-25T07:43:18.158-07:002010-05-25T07:43:18.158-07:00We're all here striving for the same goal: hea...We're all here striving for the same goal: health! Whether we're doing low carb, weight watchers, have a band, etc, whatever our method, we all want the same thing. I love the blogging community because you can find like-minded people to encourage and to encourage you!Tealehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01994083331228276203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-36905302673172523152010-05-24T09:57:27.583-07:002010-05-24T09:57:27.583-07:00What a horrible betrayal! I can't imagine how...What a horrible betrayal! I can't imagine how that would feel. I wish you piece in this matter.Amanda Kiskahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08035180757671095192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-78793841418724491152010-05-22T16:08:22.944-07:002010-05-22T16:08:22.944-07:00That is so true Fiona...well said. I am so sorry ...That is so true Fiona...well said. I am so sorry you lost those years with your mum and grandma...to putit frankly...women can be such bitches sometimes!!!Girl Bandithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10334455002394539268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-36991052794206834262010-05-22T12:28:29.844-07:002010-05-22T12:28:29.844-07:00Awesome post Fiona,,,speaks for all of us as to ho...Awesome post Fiona,,,speaks for all of us as to how we feel about this amazing community/sisterhood.<br />Sorry you had to suffer such a betrayal from someone to whom you shared your home and your heart.Cindylewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14540643788281963704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-35152187935925054892010-05-22T12:17:13.318-07:002010-05-22T12:17:13.318-07:00Firstly thank you all so much for your lovely comm...Firstly thank you all so much for your lovely comments they are VERY gratefully accepted.<br />Secondly update on above. I realise I didnt give the full story. She apologised and asked could we still be friends so I went to see her for our usual bottle of wine. I really didnt want to believe our friendship was over. Being a big girl I was used to taking the crap and keeping the peace but it just didnt work. I could not tell her anything about my life or share any of my feelings. The trust had gone. We havent spoken for 11 years, still makes me feel sad.Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02557101642178841960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-48865244619610622752010-05-22T11:18:16.237-07:002010-05-22T11:18:16.237-07:00FiFi...I can't believe how catty women can be....FiFi...I can't believe how catty women can be... She must have been jealous of you and wanted to take away what you had... You are a true survivor and your strength and power to bounce back after 2 breakups and even have the courage to start a new relationship is amazing... It's no wonder she was jealous. I am so sorry you had to go thru such an awful betrayal but I wish you Mom and Grandmom had believe you and not her. It's always easier to believe the bad things, i guess. You are an inspiration to us all... and I am happy that the 3rd time was the charm with Marcus. Thank you for your friendship... You were my first follower and I am lucky to have you as my friend! BTW, we were banded a day apart...DiZneDiVahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17438098766424979772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-9392510835631548882010-05-22T11:15:30.880-07:002010-05-22T11:15:30.880-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.DiZneDiVahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17438098766424979772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-76904236138820299882010-05-22T08:38:25.247-07:002010-05-22T08:38:25.247-07:00There is nothing that hurts you more than betrayal...There is nothing that hurts you more than betrayal! I have gone through and I know how you feel, I am so sorry!Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06291915388186870580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-90709695494499784342010-05-22T07:42:25.743-07:002010-05-22T07:42:25.743-07:00You are so right about having great friends in blo...You are so right about having great friends in blog land. I do believe in Karma. What goes around comes around in one way or another. It makes you wonder what you friend had to gain out of all that. Hang in there. We love you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-69273973573818086442010-05-22T07:14:23.162-07:002010-05-22T07:14:23.162-07:00I'm glad you had the courage to be more open w...I'm glad you had the courage to be more open with your friends out here in the blogosphere. Feels great to get stuff off your chest, huh?Rheinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17680065429461980613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-5814316684172194232010-05-22T07:05:01.017-07:002010-05-22T07:05:01.017-07:00Awwww - that friend of yours was NO friend at all....Awwww - that friend of yours was NO friend at all. And I am sorry for your pain but I feel sorry for her too - karma will kick her in the ass some day and she'll regret more than you ever will. Love you!♥ Drazil ♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/10177140029694038645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-64445347025727584642010-05-22T06:54:14.747-07:002010-05-22T06:54:14.747-07:00Agree 100%! And poo to that old friend of yours --...Agree 100%! And poo to that old friend of yours -- that is really awful.Mariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18351183370829095982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-46796655508434108332010-05-22T06:26:04.295-07:002010-05-22T06:26:04.295-07:00Great post, I'm sorry about the B*$ch, that su...Great post, I'm sorry about the B*$ch, that sucks.Theresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07794746954511347596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-92054057742002963382010-05-22T06:22:11.176-07:002010-05-22T06:22:11.176-07:00Great post Fiona. What a horrible betrayal to expe...Great post Fiona. What a horrible betrayal to experience from someone you considered to be a true friend. I agree with the other comments that karma will your friend her due.Biancahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00821331052056806581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-24144019421718274102010-05-22T04:36:35.468-07:002010-05-22T04:36:35.468-07:00You totally hit the nail on the head. At first whe...You totally hit the nail on the head. At first when I started blogging, I didn't think anyone would read what i had to say, much less thing I was interesting. As I made friends, and I do include everyone I've met on this journey on that list, I realized I could be 100% open, unashamed of who i was, who I had become as an overweight person and know that I wasn't going to be judged, which is a real rarity in the online world, where people tend to hide behind their computers enjoying the anonymous nature of things. I'm sorry your former friend did that...it sucks really bad and she will get what is due to her, threefold. Thanks so much for writing your beautiful post!Stephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02194299634556467542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-25727782706157763512010-05-22T04:11:49.590-07:002010-05-22T04:11:49.590-07:00Why do women betray each other so horribly? I'...Why do women betray each other so horribly? I'm with Jenny. I would have had a hard time not slugging her. Great post!Camillehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11953434545090207097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-84899430483683532412010-05-22T04:07:35.525-07:002010-05-22T04:07:35.525-07:00Seriously I think I would have beat her ass. That...Seriously I think I would have beat her ass. That was a horrible thing to do to someone, I'm sure like Alison said karma will get her in the end. I love your post and I couldn't agree more!!Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09210759567767466760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1174701967706557777.post-17426812401963370582010-05-22T02:23:29.611-07:002010-05-22T02:23:29.611-07:00Thats a really nice post Fiona, your ex friend was...Thats a really nice post Fiona, your ex friend was a bitch! Did you ever confront her? I believe in karma, she'll get hers!Alisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03267116546096340339noreply@blogger.com